A long time ago my mom gave me a novelty gift of a tin box full of stamped metal tags called Poetry Dog Tags. Each tag had one word on it, and the tags were meant to be added to a chain to make an inspirational necklace. I remembered making it once for Sharon with the words, "I good boy, me bite mama." Your basic caveman style valentine.
The box, with the tags, has been sitting in my closet untouched for a decade. Today the cats knocked over a huge box of items in the closet creating a giant mess, which left me cursing. However, in cleaning up the mess, I came across the box of dog tags, which had managed to stay closed during the fall. That is, until I picked it up the wrong way and spilled out all the contents on the floor.
The chain had been strung with a message slightly longer than the one I remembered, so I looked at it to figure out where the words started and where they finished. I decoded it, and it was a message from Sharon, from before we were married:
"My perfect happy place is under a huge plant at the ocean with the man I love together when time sparkle in sweet skies."
I cried a little remembering the time she created that sentence as best she could using the words available. She really wanted to say "tree" instead of huge plant, and sparkles instead of sparkle, but she had to work with the tags that were in the box. I remember us both laughing at her ingenuity in substituting "huge plant" for tree. Now I'm pondering the idea of time sparkling in sweet skies and thinking that it was her description of heaven.
And that, of course, has me bawling all over again.
Wednesday, March 27, 2019
Poetry Dog Tags
Hi, I'm Andrew, AKA Hoodyup the Evil Caregiver, and I approved this blog post. I may not have been in my right mind at the time, but what's done is done. I stand by my sins. Eppur si muove.
I started this blog as a way to vent my frustrations with life, the universe and everything (not the book by Douglas Adams; that was quite good, actually).
My seemingly charmed life took a turn in 2004 when my wife Sharon was diagnosed with MS. This blog documents the fallout and revisits the past, as well as chronicling my dreams and rants throughout the years.
Be warned - explicit language and content that runs the gamut can be found in these posts, which describe personal events, both real and those dreamed up by my overactive nocturnal psyche.
Also, I use real names whenever possible, so if you see a post with your name on it, it probably refers to you. Unless, of course, you don't know me, in which case it is purely coincidental.
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